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3.03.2006

An Incredible Moment at Nain

I started to wonder why Jesus would choose to raise this guy from the dead. There was no faith involved. No lessons to teach. Nothing to show the religious leaders. So why bring this guy back from the dead?

I sense that He probably knew what His own mother would eventually have to go through. Maybe Mary was already a widow by this time. And we know that Mary had other children, but I don’t think anything can prepare a mother’s heart for the loss of a child. How gut-wrenching. And if Jesus could save one mother from having to go through this, then why not?

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On a sidenote: I need some advice from you girls b/c I don’t know who else to turn to. I have a friend who is a Christian. She has been saved for about 4-5 years now, and she says she wants to grow in her walk. The problem is that her actions don’t seem to reflect that. She goes to a spiritually dead church, and she knows that they are spiritually dead, but since they are only 5 minutes away, its easier because she doesn’t have to get up as early. She doesn’t read her Bible. She talks badly about other people – she is very prejudiced. And her tv is her constant companion and nothing comes above that – not the Bible, not church – because that “is her only time to herself”. And she is “too tired after working all day to want to do anything else.” We even talked about lent recently – we did it together for the first time last year. She said she liked participating in Lent and she wanted to do it again, but she didn’t have anything in her life that she could give up right now. Im not judging, but I am worried. Besides praying for her, I don’t know what else to do. And really it wouldn’t bother me if she wouldn’t say she really wanted to grow. How do I deal with this?

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And if you are interested, I am taking a cue from the last lesson and 1st Corinthians 13 is what I am memorizing at the moment. Not just memorizing, but meditating on each verse of the day as I learn it so I can, hopefully, really ingrain it into who I am and who I want to become. I have faith that God will show me what to memorize when I am done with that chapter.

8 Comments:

  • Good for you, Addie, regarding your comittment to 1 Cor 13.

    As for your friend, why don't you ask her if she would do a short weekly Bible study with you? There are many out there are not long. Kay Arthur has several to choose from which are like 30 to 40 min long. She has purposely designed them that way so they could be done on a lunch hour etc...for people without much time.

    I think if you could get her IN the Word then it's up to the Holy Spirit. (I know, it's up to the Holy Spirit anyway!) A good study about the basics to give her a good foundation.

    By Blogger Pilot Mom, at 10:37 AM  

  • well, the thing is, I really cant spend any time with her... hear me out... we dont work in the same town, and by the time I get home, I have about an hour and half to spend with my son, so I desperately dont want to give that up...

    even though we live only 10 minutes apart, since she lives in a different county, its long distance on the phone.... and she doesnt have the internet at home

    I would take to writing letters to her, but I think she would take that as me being pushy...

    I have offered her devotional books, but she never gets around to reading them... (you know, with her tv time and all, she just wants to relax when she gets home)

    By Blogger dangermama, at 10:46 AM  

  • Hmm...do you have a friend that lives near her that would be willing to step up to the plate? This past summer, I did not have the time to disciple a woman who I had led to the Lord but my friend, C, said she had felt the Lord leading her to do just that. So she spent one day a week through the summer working through a basic foundational Bible study put out by Nav Press (I believe). Is something like that a possibility?

    If not, then we need to pray for a solution from the Lord. He will direct you, Addie!

    By Blogger Pilot Mom, at 10:52 AM  

  • I have one suggestion...get thee over to the Lenten prayer blog and write a prayer for what you hope would bring a newly lit fire to your friend's life and invite the others to pray for her. Maybe that would get her to set down the television and make another move towards God.

    Oh, and one other thing...I used to be a tv-aholic, too. If she is unwilling to put fifteen minutes of reading scripture a night above tv time, she's as spiritually dead as that church she's going to. Challenge her to give him 15 minutes a day doing anything but TV...praying, reading from the bible, meditation - anything. If she won't give him 15 min/day maybe that will make her realize how desperate the situation really is.

    But those are just my thoughts.

    (YES I said that on purpose!!!)

    By Blogger HeyJules, at 10:56 AM  

  • Claire - no, everyone in that area goes to that church, so they are the same way, but I know she has alot of potential

    Jules - ha, you make me smile.... and I think the prayer blog is a good idea...

    also, on the 15 minutes a day thing.... we were talking about lent, and she said she couldnt do it this year b/c she was on this new diet thing, so I told her that she could give up something besides food - like tv...

    her - "no way, thats the only time to myself and I need that when I get off work"

    me - "so you cant give up tv for God, huh"

    her - she didnt really here me "what?"

    me - "well, what Im doing is adding something instead of taking away something - Im memorizing Scripture"

    silence and then she changed the subject.... just makes me sad b/c I know she has it in her, she just wont let go of other things to get there

    By Blogger dangermama, at 11:12 AM  

  • Okee dokee... I definitely think the prayer blog is the best idea so far... the power of multiple pray-ers. I also know (from experience) that lying fallow for a season can create a craving for God from within that beats anyone else's helpful and well-intentioned suggestions.

    By Blogger Claire Joy, at 11:43 AM  

  • ok, I put the prayer up on the prayer blog, "Prayer for a Friend" - please join me in praying... I will spend almost all day with her tomorrow, so maybe God will bring something up... :)

    By Blogger dangermama, at 1:54 PM  

  • Just got home from a weekend away, but am joining you in praying for your friend.

    By Anonymous Anonymous, at 5:43 PM  

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